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My Penis and I
February 21st, 2011
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This is a film I made (The Author) in 2005 for the BBC. “I guess this thing is about having a small dick, and it’s horrible saying that because it’s true…. And why is it such a problem? This is what this film is about”. My Penis and I follows my two-year journey to discover if size matters. It charts the effect my penis has had on my life, my family and my relationship with my girlfriend Nicola. The film is now out of BBC licensing and I am free to distribute it non-commercially.

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  • lilly

    The freeness with which men criticize the female body…
    If it makes you uncomfortable to hear women talking negatively about a male body, think about the amount of criticism women hear of their bodies on a daily basis. Turn on the TV and watch commercials. They are 80% revolving around women fixing their skin, loosing weight, changing their hair colour, and so forth. I don’t think it is right to criticize any one’s body; be is male or female. Our bodies are our vessels for enjoying this beautiful Earth! 

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    • Vienna

      I completely agree! Men are extremely shallow whether they admit it or not. I have small boobs and an unattractive body, and I know I’ll never find a man. If it was all about personality… girls wouldn’t be piling on the makeup and getting plastic surgery.

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  • Monkey_house

    What a fantastic documentary.  It really is a breath of fresh air to see someone finally making a statement about the insecurities a man can have about his custard cannon’s size.  

    It’s just too bad that we are constantly pressured in our society that we need to be of a certain standard.  

    To Laura Chandler: 
    It isn’t just men that are judgemental of women’s bodies.  Everyone is judgemental of everyone, and every person is guilty of it.  Yes there are men that are going to make you feel like shit.  There are women that will do the same.   As for your comment, “My goodness, men certainly are touchy about their own bodies and critical about women’s.”, you sound as if you are implying that men shouldn’t be sensitive about the way they perceive themselves.  It makes you sound sexist.  I realize there are many men that are pigs out there that make you feel like your boobs aren’t good enough.  However, the way you are going about saying that women get gawked at, commented on, and calling it hypocritical that men are sensitive about their penis size, is hypocrisy to the tee.    I have female friends that have walked out on a man when they have taken off his trousers because of his cock size.  Can you imagine how that would feel?  You take home a good looking guy who takes off your clothes and looks at your vagina with a weird face and then laughs and walks out… I think i have made my point that women can equally be as bad as men are for being pigs.  I hope you meet a nice guy that makes you feel beautiful.  

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  • Monkey_house

    What a fantastic documentary.  It really is a breath of fresh air to see someone finally making a statement about the insecurities a man can have about his custard cannon’s size.  

    It’s just too bad that we are constantly pressured in our society that we need to be of a certain standard.  

    To Laura Chandler: 
    It isn’t just men that are judgemental of women’s bodies.  Everyone is judgemental of everyone, and every person is guilty of it.  Yes there are men that are going to make you feel like shit.  There are women that will do the same.   As for your comment, “My goodness, men certainly are touchy about their own bodies and critical about women’s.”, you sound as if you are implying that men shouldn’t be sensitive about the way they perceive themselves.  It makes you sound sexist.  I realize there are many men that are pigs out there that make you feel like your boobs aren’t good enough.  However, the way you are going about saying that women get gawked at, commented on, and calling it hypocritical that men are sensitive about their penis size, is hypocrisy to the tee.    I have female friends that have walked out on a man when they have taken off his trousers because of his cock size.  Can you imagine how that would feel?  You take home a good looking guy who takes off your clothes and looks at your vagina with a weird face and then laughs and walks out… I think i have made my point that women can equally be as bad as men are for being pigs.  I hope you meet a nice guy that makes you feel beautiful.  

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  • bigbarnzlow

    well i have a massive knob and i can tell you… size matters, i get bitches all the time and they love it xoxo bigbarnzlow

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  • Wise1

    I really like this guy.  What a sweetheart!

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  • RandomGuy

    Really brave guy

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  • Srktheking6p

    After watching this video i got a feeling that i met a fat ass  who is very low of confidence due to a stupid reason!!!! I dont blame this guy coz he was bullied in school and the fact was imbibed on his mind since he was a child.But the best part is this guy has a wonderful soul. I hope he has figured out that size doesn’t matter but erection and stamina does.To achieve the later two aspects confidence, self belief and love n pride for ur assets are very important. I am damn confident that sooner or later he will get there!!!!
    All in all a wonderful video which will help a lot of people like him.

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  • Jackie

    Size matters, but it’s not a dealbreaker. Certainly nothing to consider surgery over.

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  • Desiree

    It hurts when is too big, I can’t move freely and I don’t enjoy it… I think size doesn’t matter, what it matter is what you do with it, be creative ;)  
    And indeed that teenagers can be very cruel and mean with each other, but at the end of the day somehow we all have had that feeling about changing something on our bodies, just deal with it.Feel confident with your body, enjoy yourself and enjoy your partner.

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  • Maria

    I can’t watch this cause all he is doing is denying the fact what everyone is telling him, I mean the doctor suggested surgery he said no. Well I mean its nothing wrong with having a small cock, I don’t see as penis size is a problem to me cause its not. I’ve made love with guys who cock was small, and it was the most enjoyable thing ever. I think he needs to just chill and enjoy what he has, I mean if his girl likes it just as it is, he needs to stop complaining so much about nothing. 

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  • Darrenmalin

    a brave man. Well done sir !

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  • Guest

    You can ask all the women in the world about how penis size matters or not, and you will receive many diverse answers, but most will be framed in such a way as not to offend the man asking the question of them. A man asking such a question will always have a niggling doubt when they receive a kind answer from a woman on this issue, but when he receives an answer stating that it does matter, how self-debilitating would it be for him if he were to accept that to be the truth?

    Procreatively, a small penis is only a problem if it hampers the ability to sire off-spring, and modern science can help with that. However, penis size anxiety is more about wanting to satisfy one’s partner physically, because we all want to meet the needs of our partners so that they don’t feel in themselves the need to stray and look elsewhere for their satisfaction. When we love a person, we don’t want to feel ourselves so sexually inadequate physically that we think we may lose them to someone else. That kind of thinking is highly debilitating and self-reinforcing of the anxiety.

    For men having penis size anxiety issues, the first step is to overcome the absence of sexual self-esteem, which in turn dilutes a man’s self-perception of his his worth as a adult male.
    Sex is an important part of our world, especially as part of one’s expression of love towards one’s partner, but it is only a part of the whole, and as long as the other parts are doing fine, together the couple can help the man overcome his anxieties regarding the size of his penis.

    Fact of the matter is, for many women, penis size does matter, but for many others it doesn’t. It’s the same for gay men, some are size queens, whilst others are not…it’s about personal preference.

    A large penis on a man maybe considered more aesthetically pleasing to the eye than one with a small penis, but in ancient Greek and Roman art, it wasn’t, it was anathema to portray a large penis…look at the statue of David.

    There is no way anyone can give a definitive answer of aid to any man with penis anxiety in such a small space, but I would hope that any man having such anxieties would come to recognize that he is not alone, and that he can overcome the aniety. Just do the research and they will see that penis anxiety affects men having large penis’, too.

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  • liam

    I’m pretty sure if this guy had a 8 incher he still wouldn’t get laid

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  • Simon Bettstein

    this made me think and the girls i did it with told me diameter is more important than length! and everything above 7cm and below 12cm in length is perfectly normal!

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  • guest

    I feel so sorry for this guy. I can relate to him, I have a six inch penis and I know its too small. My girlfriend never says anything but I know she’d love a bigger one. You need at least seven inches, eight is ideal but why is it that only ten percent of men have seven or more??????? Everyone is giving out about the girls at 23.00, but that’s their choice if they want a big penis. I like girls with big natural breasts, does that make me a bad person???

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    • Truthbetold 15

      I dont think its about people being angry about their preference its how they are perceiving men with smaller penises. Its not what you say it how you say it.

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  • Kkadco

    24:45 Dude where’s your gloves at???….seriously?!?!?!?

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  • somebody

    I’m pretty sure liam is an asshole.

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  • Nigel

    And ironically in Ancient Greece big penises were considered gross and barbaric and small penises were thought of as  more superior and more ascetically pleasing. 

    You were born in the wrong Era mate.

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  • CJ

    I have a bigger clit than his Johnson. I empathise with him, we’re both ‘abnormal’ down there – I used to be insecure about it too. Both men and women make fun of the opposite’s sex genitalia, I’ve heard men comment on ‘big lips’ or that she was ‘too loose’ abd I’ve hear women saying he was ‘too small’ or ‘his balls were hung too low’.

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    • CJ

      *Bigger than him when he’s soft – not erect.

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  • guest

    wow, brave man. that is A SMALL penis….

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  • Thebes

    His girlfriend seems pretty cold.

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  • lm

    I always knew those rugby players were gay

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  • Dude

    He may have a smaller penis than you keyboard warriors but he has way bigger balls than you making this.

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  • http://documentaryheaven hiza

    ha ha

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  • Jay

    I feel terrible for him….and I thought I had a complexion…

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  • me

    size does matter to me. if i can’t feel anything i don’t enjoy it. period. small dick men are right up there with premature ejaculators. you will not get a second chance with me. nothing wrong with preference. if there’s something that a man doesn’t like about me, i’m cool with that because everything isn’t for everybody. i’ll find the size i like and he can find whatever he likes. it’s a big wide world. find who and what you like and live life baby!!

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    • Truthbetold 15

      Its not point saying if there is nothing wrong with preference but yet you have criticised some one with a penis who many not be what you prefer less pleasurable, premature ejaculators. No woman is truly stone cold the fact of the matter is if someone you cared about ever criticised you in anyway you would be hurt. I wonder what would happen if the man you loved said your vagina is loose, your hair looks like a mess, you breath stinks if only your boobs were just fuller and a wishes you were slimmer?

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  • journey inward

    bop!

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  • princess

    penis size does matter to women!!
    c’mon women don’t lie most women like big dicks…

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  • ivachan
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    I admire you and your partner immensely.As a youngster now 50 I masturbated a lot,and basically you should realise that your penis is a muscle and with excercise it grows bigger(use it or lose it)should be a big hobby!,You had a phobia which prevented this,size is definately not important.Love is,and love often and it will grow :)

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  • Berlin

    As a girl, I enjoy men who are smaller. I call them “fun size” :) and I am not the only girl to feel that way. Smaller sized penis men are more introverted and more likely to treasure their girlfriends–more likely to commit and less likely to sleep around. Also, since I am smaller in my own lower regions–I find a smaller penis a better “fit.”

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  • Larry

    Watch “The disappearing Male” at doc zone site. 

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  • Henrykaylins

    Its true, we guys objectify women’s breasts and bodies. Any guy who denies that is a liar.  Looks like the ladies are doing unto guys as guys have done unto them. Seems fair imo… but then I am a nice guy.

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  • Woolybluesocks

    Time to invent dangerous silicone penis implants.

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  • Larry

    I mean, look at all the Hollywood ladies, they almost all have implants and if they didnt get them, they wouldnt get the movie parts. So guys, quit being crybabies.

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  • Guest

    Epic!
    It was amazing to watch someone open up and let the world into such painful vulnerability.
    I was almost 30 by the time I heard a girlfriend talk about her preference size
    wise and that was the FIRST time the thought of a preference even crossed my
    mind. Since then it’s still not something I consider when I consider attraction
    to a man. Size matters to me a whole lot, but it’s the size of heart…..the
    rest is just a package for the important stuff.

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  • Emma T

    How did this documentary get a 9.1/10?  I think it took a lot of courage to make, however I cant justify such a high rating.

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  • Meroujan

    why do I get the feeling that he is more comfortable with himself than he lets on.
    I feel weird saying that, as it comes off as being a negative comment.
    It’s great that he is comfortable with himself but the whole happy ending felt rather fake.

    Anyway, don’t want to be negative.
    This documentary was still a very important one to be done and I hope there are many more like it.
    I feel that women need to be educated about these types of things because as a society we know the female insecurities and we are more open towards the female body ( I would love someone to argue that that is not fact!)

    We are less open towards female sexuality than men’s which is another issue but the male anatomy is still something women in their 30′s will laugh at. Go to any Greek exhibit and watch all the lady’s laughing at male genitalia on a statue.

    Anyway great documentary to watch, and I hope men will stop judging themselves over the size of their penis’ eventually.

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    • Truthbetold 15

      So true I just say women need to be honest and clarify what they mean, no point saying your mans penis is perfect for you but yet when someone talks about a big penis you light up like a christmas tree and giggle like a teenager looking at porn

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  • lyn1792

    This was a fantastic video and watching the process that Lawrence has gone through was amazing to watch. The end result is that he is much more accepting then the beginning but isn’t that life in general with problems and issues. The girlfriend is a real person with an incredible personality. This has been an indepth experience for me to view this video. I never thought men ever felt this way….ever!!

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  • lkj

    I…just have the greatest respect for you. What guy would have the balls to tell this in a car full of hot women! That’s true manhood man, and nothing else, but THAT!

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  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100004419253096 Ben Smith

    WOW talk about self asteem boost, poor bloke but atleast he is happy.

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  • kardozo

    It late for some of you guys but Zinc help the body to create testosterone!!! Just eat alot of zinc containing food or take some zinc pills

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  • anabella

    I just saw the title and began laughing. But this is not laughing matter.

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  • anabella

    this is serious matter.

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