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This is a film I made (The Author) in 2005 for the BBC. “I guess this thing is about having a small dick, and it’s horrible saying that because it’s true…. And why is it such a problem? This is what this film is about”. My Penis and I follows my two-year journey to discover if size matters. It charts the effect my penis has had on my life, my family and my relationship with my girlfriend Nicola. The film is now out of BBC licensing and I am free to distribute it non-commercially.

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  • Gabriel

    I guess size doesn’t matter!

  • Bianca

    What a great documentary. All the best to you and Nicola. The size doesn’t matter; the person you are is so much more meaningful, and you seem like a wonderful person which is a rare find in this world.

  • Foxhole Playlist

    Brilliant documentary! They show so much love and support for one another, and he goes out his way to shake his past. I admire his bravery to confront his past on camera. Really neat watch. -A Biochem pre-med student.

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  • Adam

    This man may have a small penis but he has HUGE balls to make a documentary like this. This was an hard, honest, look at himself and the dealing of a great turmoil. Brave indeed. I look forward to his next documentary.

  • Stylin4u269

    I commend you for honesty, the ability and courage to lay it out on the line like that is admirable. One thing I got out of this Documentary is you may have a small penis in your eye’s but you have a huge heart and a kind spirit. In the end that is going to take you a lot further in life then a big dick. I must tell you myself that I have a 8″ dick thats pretty thick and I myself still feel like its small compared to other guys that have even bigger dicks. So I don’t think the insecurity ever goes away. My point is it’s all perspective. You have a very sweet woman that appears to love you unconditionally. That my friend is a key element of life. So great job, well done.

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  • snabe

    Great documentary. I didn’t know what to expect when I decided to see it. I was pleasantly pleased with what I saw. It left me with a good feeling inside. Your a pretty cool dude.

  • Ame

    HOLY SHIT! was I the only one who noticed that his pupils where EXTREMELY dilated at 21:46?

  • Ame

    HOLY SHIT! was I the only one who noticed that his pupils where EXTREMELY dilated at 21:46?

  • Ame

    HOLY SHIT! was I the only one who noticed that his pupils where EXTREMELY dilated at 21:46?

  • Peter

    22:00 So a medium sized penis is the size of a fore-arm, hmmm…

  • Guest

    anyone notice that the doctor didn’t use gloves when handling his “knob” lol. that’s a bit too much hands on, even for an exam by a doctor if you ask me. . . 

  • Guest

    anyone notice that the doctor didn’t use gloves when handling his “knob” lol. that’s a bit too much hands on, even for an exam by a doctor if you ask me. . . 

    • http://www.facebook.com/bigdean636 Zack Dean

      Wow, yes, that’s really weird.

    • http://www.facebook.com/bigdean636 Zack Dean

      Wow, yes, that’s really weird.

  • http://www.facebook.com/bigdean636 Zack Dean

    Wow, it’s horribly fucked up that his girlfriend REFUSED to be shown on camera. Jesus… the hits just keep on coming,

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Laura-Chandler/515394177 Laura Chandler

      No it isn’t. Some people aren’t attention whores. Isn’t the point of this that society is too judgmental? Think on it.

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Laura-Chandler/515394177 Laura Chandler

      No it isn’t. Some people aren’t attention whores. Isn’t the point of this that society is too judgmental? Think on it.

  • http://www.facebook.com/bigdean636 Zack Dean

    Holy shit at 23:00! What she thinks is “medium” is actually gigantic! Damn you, porn stars, for ruining it for normal men!

  • http://www.facebook.com/bigdean636 Zack Dean

    Holy shit at 23:00! What she thinks is “medium” is actually gigantic! Damn you, porn stars, for ruining it for normal men!

  • Emasfem15

    great job- thank you for being open about such a sensitive subject. you show such courage and bravery in your vulnerability and at the end of the day- it appears that your gift from showing that would be that you found the light at the end of the tunnel in this part of your journey. may the light continue to shine on you as you find your way…

  • Wapalleria

    Hey man, i feel you. I don’t exactly have a huge dick either. My girlfriend never complains, but I know that’s because she loves me and doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. What I’ve learned is that no matter your size, if you can give a girl her orgasm and cuddle with her afterward, she couldn’t care less about the size of your penis.

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Pennia-Perez-Gonzales/100003209142054 Pennia Perez Gonzales

       It’s not the size of the boat. It’s the motion of the ocean.

      The G-spot is pretty near the vaginal opening, he doesn’t need to be deep inside to rub it the right way.

      • lonely guy

        youre so right but i dont think is so much the size is the embarasement when youre reminded of youre size and youre made fun of and youre the joke or when some one breaks youre heart leave you for some one else and then tells you it was because of youre small penis trust me penis size matters ive been cheated on by pretty much every girl friend i had and all told me it was because they whanted something bigger and what hurts the most is theres nothing i could do about it

  • Maria

    Beautiful documentary and I believe very inspirational to women and men alike. It takes courage to face something that has become an issue that our culture will hardly even realize, let alone talk about! As a women I must say that the way he went about making this was beautiful and important. Expressing his history with bullying was quite saddening and the strength that he developed for himself at the end was inspiring! Well done!

    And, speaking for myself, the only women I have ever met who were concerned with size were also concerned about their muscle control, not their own pleasure. It’s easy to hide behind an orgasm when there are real problems to be faced.

  • bob

    sooo the point i got from this documentary is that if you make a plaster mold of your wiener you’ll feel better about

  • Sylvia Halpert

    This was a beautiful documentary. Your girlfriend is stupid and she is like, “I don’t see the issue.” She is obviously the issue.

  • Sylvia Halpert

    This was a beautiful documentary. Your girlfriend is stupid and she is like, “I don’t see the issue.” She is obviously the issue.

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Laura-Chandler/515394177 Laura Chandler

      No she isn’t. She is saying it means nothing to her. *HE* is the one with body shame, a shame that started before the girlfriend. THAT is the issue. 

  • Sylvia Halpert

    This was a beautiful documentary. Your girlfriend is stupid and she is like, “I don’t see the issue.” She is obviously the issue.

  • Sylvia Halpert

    This was a beautiful documentary. Your girlfriend is stupid and she is like, “I don’t see the issue.” She is obviously the issue.

  • Msimmons7787

    I’m shocked that the Dr was touching his balls without gloves.

  • a girl

    If you have a sense of humour about something you consider a flaw it becomes sexy. Seriously.

  • Kdkanu

    Nice guy, my  heart goes out to him…

  • a man

    THis guys is really a brave man to full on face his insecurities in such a transparent way. I have to say that as a man watching this it did open up my perspectives in regard to accepting me and body in general as it is and not just my penis.

  • a man

    THis guys is really a brave man to full on face his insecurities in such a transparent way. I have to say that as a man watching this it did open up my perspectives in regard to accepting me and body in general as it is and not just my penis.

  • Awake

    This hurts to watch, simply because. Why the hell should anybody feel bad about their own god damn bodies? They’re our own bodies and no one else’s it’s what makes us different from one another. No one should tell us how we should look and how we shouldn’t, whats average and what isn’t. What we say is average for ourselves is just that and no one can tell us any different. 

  • shig

    This was really great, really touching and even very inspiring. I have to say it was pretty funny tho – HOW IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH MY PENIS is really hilarious out of context.

  • Asasdas

    Those girls around the 23rd minute are drunk and stupid. What asses.

  • Werewolf

    “That’s a lovely looking penis, isn’t it?” Cracks me up.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Laura-Chandler/515394177 Laura Chandler

    All you fellas raging at the girls at the 23:00: I wonder how often you have commented with abandon on the size, shape, firmness and bounce of a girls tits? Indeed, the hypocrisy is astounding. The day we ladies have a full on conversation staring at the front of a man’s trousers is the day you can all criticize. My goodness, men certainly are touchy about their own bodies and critical about womens.

    • PK

      However Laura, can you really compare a pair of boobs to a penis?

      a more fair comparison would be the size of the penis compared to the depth or tightness of a vagina or whatever

      compare boobs to boobs and genitals to genitals.

      Furthermore, I think the number of guys that are critical of their own appearance are increasing in number constantly.

      On a sidenote: though I never frown upon a nice pair of boobs, it’s like I care if they’re not there, it’s the face and the eyes I always check out first as well as the intellect of a girl, there is nothing more off-putting to me than a dumb person no matter how pretty she is.

      • Andy

        laura you’re ridiculous. when do men go on ranting saying medium is the size of a full blown balloon on camera infront of a woman? yeah we talk about tits girls talk about dicks. but it’s the audaciousness of these clowns that’s remarkable. and you’re the hypocrite. men can criticize when woman have a conversation staring at a mans junk? when was the last time a group of men stood in front of you staring at your tits talking about them? and it is completely different. the whole world is more critical on dicks than on tits. girls will sleep with guys then talk about size among other things. 
        guys wont do that with tits. guys will however talk about how if that really is a medium dick for that woman how it was throwing a hot dog down a hallway. not to her face though. as you accuse men of doing so. i am critical of womans bodies. as i am of mine. i make an effort to look good, i can be critical to be with a girl that looks good.
        to say men a touchy about their bodies is hilarious. that is the epitome of a woman. 

        also the ugly one with short hair who kept repeating erect? erect!? erect!? can roll over and die. she’s lucky to see one dick. 

        • Lisa

          I happen to be good friends with a group of men, and being in that group I do hear about the way they talk about women behind their backs, and yes they do talk critically about the size of breasts. And they aren’t the only ones, (apparently men think they can include me in these conversations for some reason). I have also been criticised to my face about my own breasts or even that my vagina doesn’t look like a perfect porn stars (a good thing i would think). Yes there are men good men that don’t do this. As there are good women who do not talk about the size of mens penis’ behind their backs, I being one of them.

          I do completely agree with you on these particular women though, If they think medium is that big then they have must have a seriously loose vagina. 

          I don’t mind admitting in the slightest that men I have slept with that were on the smaller size (smallest being hardly poking out the top of my fist) were amazingly better at sex than the largest, which felt so uncomfortable I had to tell him to stop. 
          I have friends that have had the exact same experiences.

          • guest

            ya! size never matters, i should say my gf as small breast, but i never complained because i never thought about t. but one day she thought i had a crush for her friend but actually her friend was flirting, i didnt and i just thought her friend was more matured or actin to be tats all, so she didn ask me directly but asked me does i hav a problem wit her breast??? becuse she knows, tats when i actually realised her breast were small, and it didnt bother me at all because i love her not her body parts
            but i do agree tat it and looks does matters in the very beginning, later its how much she loves and how much effort u put ONLY counts

    • PK

      correction: “it’s NOT like I care if…”

    • safaan

      tat day s long away! we dont walk showin off our dick bulg, and eyes can see only wat u want to show…

    • Viz

      Only comment I’d make is that since breasts are generally fairly visible it’s not really possible to get such a skewed view of what is ‘normal’. Penises, especially when erect, are not normally on show and plenty people have only seen penises in porn. If people talk about it they tend to lie about their own size or experiences. So its very easy for views of ‘normal’ to get massively skewed.

    • Truthbetold 15

      Your lack of understanding is clear about men and how our bodies work. Not saying all women fall into the the same categories but most women are incredibly cynical and are completely oblivious to how insensitive they can be towards men. Now it is understandable that emotions can influence how women respond to certain things that still no excuse and often women contradict themselves in what they say and how they act, but if men showed the same level of disrespect and insensitivity to a womans vagina or any other body part and throw up ridiculous comparisons in the same manner a lot of women do to a mans penis so publicly, we would have a lot more feminists and rights activists and man bashers than we do today and even more telling would be the rise of vagina reconstruction surgery or some kind of miracle pill. If men started to protest about the rights to have an normal sized penis a lot of these women would crawl back into the porn infested reality that they came from.

    • anabella

      I’m with you Miss Laura. And the ones that say that size does not matter. SIZE MATTERS A LOT!!!!

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  • Green_22192

    Good documentary. Finally, a man who can come out and talk about the issue. We all feel this insecurity guys, so don’t act like you don’t. The girls outside of the bar were just whores. 

  • Green_22192

    Good documentary. Finally, a man who can come out and talk about the issue. We all feel this insecurity guys, so don’t act like you don’t. The girls outside of the bar were just whores. 

  • ashley

    that girl at 23:00 must be big as hell in her vagina. I think I’m the only female in the world where size doesn’t matter. Just love the girl. If she’s a good girl, she’ll please you and if you respect her and love her and cuddle, she’ll give the world to you. That’s all I want anyway. 

    • ashley

      plus, big penises hurt if they’re too big and long…sigh

      • Annie

        I completely agree. I’ve actually decided not to sleep with a guy I was dating because he was too big.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=672796669 Cazz Priest

    One of the most bravest and heart renching doco’s Ive ever seen. Hats off to you mate for being a big enough man to face your fears and overcome them..
    Those pissed tarts dont know anything.. An honest sober women doesnt care what the size of the cock is when its attatched to the man she loves.. Its not what it is its how you use it….

  • psychoanalyzed

    how interesting….Your comments as well….

  • Rfesef

    his gf seems like a cunt somtimes

  • Rfesef

    his gf seems like a cunt somtimes

  • a woman

    length actually doesn’t matter that much. But diameter does. At least if the guy doesn’t have any other “skills” or techniques. To satisfy a woman is manly a thing of the mind and the chemistry between the partners

  • a woman

    length actually doesn’t matter that much. But diameter does. At least if the guy doesn’t have any other “skills” or techniques. To satisfy a woman is manly a thing of the mind and the chemistry between the partners

  • Yves

    creativity is everything! showing the world your view on your small dick is no exception. you are a brilliant man Lawrence! i’m sure you’ve figured out that it’s not the size that matters in fact but how you use it! be creative! break the mold of people’s pre-conceptions of big dicks and show the world what big dicks can’t do!
    power to you brother and keep on fucking!

  • Annie

    I have to agree about the boob comments. Guys definitely judge and frequently comment on their size. Imagine if every pair of pants you wore clung to your body and displayed the size & shape of your penis to everybody the way that a typical women’s shirt reveals her boobs. At least men get to determine who they show their penises to.

    Anyway, there are a LOT of women that have small vaginas and prefer men that won’t tear them up. Most women (in my opinion) are compassionate enough to try and make their men feel comfortable & confident with their bodies. We’re not all like the horrible girls at 23:00!

  • Annie

    I have to agree about the boob comments. Guys definitely judge and frequently comment on their size. Imagine if every pair of pants you wore clung to your body and displayed the size & shape of your penis to everybody the way that a typical women’s shirt reveals her boobs. At least men get to determine who they show their penises to.

    Anyway, there are a LOT of women that have small vaginas and prefer men that won’t tear them up. Most women (in my opinion) are compassionate enough to try and make their men feel comfortable & confident with their bodies. We’re not all like the horrible girls at 23:00!

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    Well, i´m black and…mhh wel dont be Maad xD

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  • lilly

    The freeness with which men criticize the female body…
    If it makes you uncomfortable to hear women talking negatively about a male body, think about the amount of criticism women hear of their bodies on a daily basis. Turn on the TV and watch commercials. They are 80% revolving around women fixing their skin, loosing weight, changing their hair colour, and so forth. I don’t think it is right to criticize any one’s body; be is male or female. Our bodies are our vessels for enjoying this beautiful Earth! 

    • Vienna

      I completely agree! Men are extremely shallow whether they admit it or not. I have small boobs and an unattractive body, and I know I’ll never find a man. If it was all about personality… girls wouldn’t be piling on the makeup and getting plastic surgery.

  • Monkey_house

    What a fantastic documentary.  It really is a breath of fresh air to see someone finally making a statement about the insecurities a man can have about his custard cannon’s size.  

    It’s just too bad that we are constantly pressured in our society that we need to be of a certain standard.  

    To Laura Chandler: 
    It isn’t just men that are judgemental of women’s bodies.  Everyone is judgemental of everyone, and every person is guilty of it.  Yes there are men that are going to make you feel like shit.  There are women that will do the same.   As for your comment, “My goodness, men certainly are touchy about their own bodies and critical about women’s.”, you sound as if you are implying that men shouldn’t be sensitive about the way they perceive themselves.  It makes you sound sexist.  I realize there are many men that are pigs out there that make you feel like your boobs aren’t good enough.  However, the way you are going about saying that women get gawked at, commented on, and calling it hypocritical that men are sensitive about their penis size, is hypocrisy to the tee.    I have female friends that have walked out on a man when they have taken off his trousers because of his cock size.  Can you imagine how that would feel?  You take home a good looking guy who takes off your clothes and looks at your vagina with a weird face and then laughs and walks out… I think i have made my point that women can equally be as bad as men are for being pigs.  I hope you meet a nice guy that makes you feel beautiful.  

  • Monkey_house

    What a fantastic documentary.  It really is a breath of fresh air to see someone finally making a statement about the insecurities a man can have about his custard cannon’s size.  

    It’s just too bad that we are constantly pressured in our society that we need to be of a certain standard.  

    To Laura Chandler: 
    It isn’t just men that are judgemental of women’s bodies.  Everyone is judgemental of everyone, and every person is guilty of it.  Yes there are men that are going to make you feel like shit.  There are women that will do the same.   As for your comment, “My goodness, men certainly are touchy about their own bodies and critical about women’s.”, you sound as if you are implying that men shouldn’t be sensitive about the way they perceive themselves.  It makes you sound sexist.  I realize there are many men that are pigs out there that make you feel like your boobs aren’t good enough.  However, the way you are going about saying that women get gawked at, commented on, and calling it hypocritical that men are sensitive about their penis size, is hypocrisy to the tee.    I have female friends that have walked out on a man when they have taken off his trousers because of his cock size.  Can you imagine how that would feel?  You take home a good looking guy who takes off your clothes and looks at your vagina with a weird face and then laughs and walks out… I think i have made my point that women can equally be as bad as men are for being pigs.  I hope you meet a nice guy that makes you feel beautiful.  

  • bigbarnzlow

    well i have a massive knob and i can tell you… size matters, i get bitches all the time and they love it xoxo bigbarnzlow

  • Wise1

    I really like this guy.  What a sweetheart!

  • RandomGuy

    Really brave guy

  • Srktheking6p

    After watching this video i got a feeling that i met a fat ass  who is very low of confidence due to a stupid reason!!!! I dont blame this guy coz he was bullied in school and the fact was imbibed on his mind since he was a child.But the best part is this guy has a wonderful soul. I hope he has figured out that size doesn’t matter but erection and stamina does.To achieve the later two aspects confidence, self belief and love n pride for ur assets are very important. I am damn confident that sooner or later he will get there!!!!
    All in all a wonderful video which will help a lot of people like him.

  • Jackie

    Size matters, but it’s not a dealbreaker. Certainly nothing to consider surgery over.

  • Desiree

    It hurts when is too big, I can’t move freely and I don’t enjoy it… I think size doesn’t matter, what it matter is what you do with it, be creative 😉 
    And indeed that teenagers can be very cruel and mean with each other, but at the end of the day somehow we all have had that feeling about changing something on our bodies, just deal with it.Feel confident with your body, enjoy yourself and enjoy your partner.

  • Maria

    I can’t watch this cause all he is doing is denying the fact what everyone is telling him, I mean the doctor suggested surgery he said no. Well I mean its nothing wrong with having a small cock, I don’t see as penis size is a problem to me cause its not. I’ve made love with guys who cock was small, and it was the most enjoyable thing ever. I think he needs to just chill and enjoy what he has, I mean if his girl likes it just as it is, he needs to stop complaining so much about nothing. 

  • Darrenmalin

    a brave man. Well done sir !

  • Guest

    You can ask all the women in the world about how penis size matters or not, and you will receive many diverse answers, but most will be framed in such a way as not to offend the man asking the question of them. A man asking such a question will always have a niggling doubt when they receive a kind answer from a woman on this issue, but when he receives an answer stating that it does matter, how self-debilitating would it be for him if he were to accept that to be the truth?

    Procreatively, a small penis is only a problem if it hampers the ability to sire off-spring, and modern science can help with that. However, penis size anxiety is more about wanting to satisfy one’s partner physically, because we all want to meet the needs of our partners so that they don’t feel in themselves the need to stray and look elsewhere for their satisfaction. When we love a person, we don’t want to feel ourselves so sexually inadequate physically that we think we may lose them to someone else. That kind of thinking is highly debilitating and self-reinforcing of the anxiety.

    For men having penis size anxiety issues, the first step is to overcome the absence of sexual self-esteem, which in turn dilutes a man’s self-perception of his his worth as a adult male.
    Sex is an important part of our world, especially as part of one’s expression of love towards one’s partner, but it is only a part of the whole, and as long as the other parts are doing fine, together the couple can help the man overcome his anxieties regarding the size of his penis.

    Fact of the matter is, for many women, penis size does matter, but for many others it doesn’t. It’s the same for gay men, some are size queens, whilst others are not…it’s about personal preference.

    A large penis on a man maybe considered more aesthetically pleasing to the eye than one with a small penis, but in ancient Greek and Roman art, it wasn’t, it was anathema to portray a large penis…look at the statue of David.

    There is no way anyone can give a definitive answer of aid to any man with penis anxiety in such a small space, but I would hope that any man having such anxieties would come to recognize that he is not alone, and that he can overcome the aniety. Just do the research and they will see that penis anxiety affects men having large penis’, too.

  • liam

    I’m pretty sure if this guy had a 8 incher he still wouldn’t get laid

  • Simon Bettstein

    this made me think and the girls i did it with told me diameter is more important than length! and everything above 7cm and below 12cm in length is perfectly normal!

  • guest

    I feel so sorry for this guy. I can relate to him, I have a six inch penis and I know its too small. My girlfriend never says anything but I know she’d love a bigger one. You need at least seven inches, eight is ideal but why is it that only ten percent of men have seven or more??????? Everyone is giving out about the girls at 23.00, but that’s their choice if they want a big penis. I like girls with big natural breasts, does that make me a bad person???

    • Truthbetold 15

      I dont think its about people being angry about their preference its how they are perceiving men with smaller penises. Its not what you say it how you say it.

  • Kkadco

    24:45 Dude where’s your gloves at???….seriously?!?!?!?

  • somebody

    I’m pretty sure liam is an asshole.

    • Nathan

      Why is there no thumbs up option? I want to thumbs up your comment.

  • Nigel

    And ironically in Ancient Greece big penises were considered gross and barbaric and small penises were thought of as  more superior and more ascetically pleasing. 

    You were born in the wrong Era mate.

  • CJ

    I have a bigger clit than his Johnson. I empathise with him, we’re both ‘abnormal’ down there – I used to be insecure about it too. Both men and women make fun of the opposite’s sex genitalia, I’ve heard men comment on ‘big lips’ or that she was ‘too loose’ abd I’ve hear women saying he was ‘too small’ or ‘his balls were hung too low’.

    • CJ

      *Bigger than him when he’s soft – not erect.

  • guest

    wow, brave man. that is A SMALL penis….

  • Thebes

    His girlfriend seems pretty cold.

  • lm

    I always knew those rugby players were gay

  • Dude

    He may have a smaller penis than you keyboard warriors but he has way bigger balls than you making this.

  • http://documentaryheaven hiza

    ha ha

  • Jay

    I feel terrible for him….and I thought I had a complexion…

  • me

    size does matter to me. if i can’t feel anything i don’t enjoy it. period. small dick men are right up there with premature ejaculators. you will not get a second chance with me. nothing wrong with preference. if there’s something that a man doesn’t like about me, i’m cool with that because everything isn’t for everybody. i’ll find the size i like and he can find whatever he likes. it’s a big wide world. find who and what you like and live life baby!!

    • Truthbetold 15

      Its not point saying if there is nothing wrong with preference but yet you have criticised some one with a penis who many not be what you prefer less pleasurable, premature ejaculators. No woman is truly stone cold the fact of the matter is if someone you cared about ever criticised you in anyway you would be hurt. I wonder what would happen if the man you loved said your vagina is loose, your hair looks like a mess, you breath stinks if only your boobs were just fuller and a wishes you were slimmer?

  • journey inward

    bop!

  • princess

    penis size does matter to women!!
    c’mon women don’t lie most women like big dicks…

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    I admire you and your partner immensely.As a youngster now 50 I masturbated a lot,and basically you should realise that your penis is a muscle and with excercise it grows bigger(use it or lose it)should be a big hobby!,You had a phobia which prevented this,size is definately not important.Love is,and love often and it will grow :)

  • Berlin

    As a girl, I enjoy men who are smaller. I call them “fun size” :) and I am not the only girl to feel that way. Smaller sized penis men are more introverted and more likely to treasure their girlfriends–more likely to commit and less likely to sleep around. Also, since I am smaller in my own lower regions–I find a smaller penis a better “fit.”

  • Larry

    Watch “The disappearing Male” at doc zone site. 

  • Henrykaylins

    Its true, we guys objectify women’s breasts and bodies. Any guy who denies that is a liar.  Looks like the ladies are doing unto guys as guys have done unto them. Seems fair imo… but then I am a nice guy.

  • Woolybluesocks

    Time to invent dangerous silicone penis implants.

  • Larry

    I mean, look at all the Hollywood ladies, they almost all have implants and if they didnt get them, they wouldnt get the movie parts. So guys, quit being crybabies.

  • Guest

    Epic!
    It was amazing to watch someone open up and let the world into such painful vulnerability.
    I was almost 30 by the time I heard a girlfriend talk about her preference size
    wise and that was the FIRST time the thought of a preference even crossed my
    mind. Since then it’s still not something I consider when I consider attraction
    to a man. Size matters to me a whole lot, but it’s the size of heart…..the
    rest is just a package for the important stuff.

  • Emma T

    How did this documentary get a 9.1/10?  I think it took a lot of courage to make, however I cant justify such a high rating.

  • Meroujan

    why do I get the feeling that he is more comfortable with himself than he lets on.
    I feel weird saying that, as it comes off as being a negative comment.
    It’s great that he is comfortable with himself but the whole happy ending felt rather fake.

    Anyway, don’t want to be negative.
    This documentary was still a very important one to be done and I hope there are many more like it.
    I feel that women need to be educated about these types of things because as a society we know the female insecurities and we are more open towards the female body ( I would love someone to argue that that is not fact!)

    We are less open towards female sexuality than men’s which is another issue but the male anatomy is still something women in their 30’s will laugh at. Go to any Greek exhibit and watch all the lady’s laughing at male genitalia on a statue.

    Anyway great documentary to watch, and I hope men will stop judging themselves over the size of their penis’ eventually.

    • Truthbetold 15

      So true I just say women need to be honest and clarify what they mean, no point saying your mans penis is perfect for you but yet when someone talks about a big penis you light up like a christmas tree and giggle like a teenager looking at porn

  • lyn1792

    This was a fantastic video and watching the process that Lawrence has gone through was amazing to watch. The end result is that he is much more accepting then the beginning but isn’t that life in general with problems and issues. The girlfriend is a real person with an incredible personality. This has been an indepth experience for me to view this video. I never thought men ever felt this way….ever!!

  • lkj

    I…just have the greatest respect for you. What guy would have the balls to tell this in a car full of hot women! That’s true manhood man, and nothing else, but THAT!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100004419253096 Ben Smith

    WOW talk about self asteem boost, poor bloke but atleast he is happy.

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  • kardozo

    It late for some of you guys but Zinc help the body to create testosterone!!! Just eat alot of zinc containing food or take some zinc pills

  • anabella

    I just saw the title and began laughing. But this is not laughing matter.

  • anabella

    this is serious matter.

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  • lonely guy

    this dude is smaller than me and iam small but he has a woman and i cant even keep a woman

  • Michelle

    No matter how many times you say size doesn’t matter…. its does. This man will never ever make a woman feel sexually satisfied.

    Every sexual experience a woman has with him will simply be a compromise and deep down she will crave a larger cock, and eventually cheat. No matter what they say. If a woman says your 3 inch cock is fine, she is lying, plain and simple.

    • Chester

      You should really speak for yourself, I mean how shallow are you. Any woman craving larger cock as you say is a whore, and should just start charging money. No guy wants a whore anyways who complains about dick size. I feel sorry for you because you will probably never know what having a real emotionally close relationship is because all you think about in men is the size of the cock that you can bang. Pretty pathetic. Also, all the guys I know and have known with large cocks, cheat like animals, so don’t get too tied down. Pun intended.

      • Alice

        Sorry to bust your bubble, but size DOES matter. Women talk to each other. I have lived on 3 continents and all my girlfriends have offered an opinion about the guys they were dating’s package….NONE were ever flattering when the guy had a small penis. I know we want the world to be this place where we are all empathetic but at its basic level, we are seeking alpha males and small penis is not alpha quality. Sorry. And for all those who think men with big penis are unfaithful, that is not true. I am the second woman my husband ever dated and he has been faithful for 10 years. And yes…he has the heart of an angel and is super well hang!

        • Fisher

          I’m not big. And two women have left their husbands for me. One husband was particularly large, in fact. To the point that it sometimes hurt, she said. We cheated on him for 6 months before they got divorced. You also need to take into account that like large and small sizes of penises there are as many sizes as vaginas. You two women, Michelle and Alice, sound like you have huge vaginas: the female equivalent to having a tiny penis… Enjoy that.

    • Fisher

      I’m not big. And two women have left their husbands for me. One husband was particularly large, in fact. To the point that it sometimes hurt, she said. We cheated on him for 6 months before they got divorced. You also need to take into account that like large and small sizes of penises there are as many sizes as vaginas. You two women, Michelle and Alice, sound like you have huge vaginas: the female equivalent to having a tiny penis … Enjoy that.

  • Lil’pecker

    Damn, I do not feel as bad anymore knowing that some other man are smaller than I am. I have to agree that this man have bigger balls than many with donkey cocks.

  • smallestcockintheworld

    It’s annoying how women try to always throw in the breast size thing when men complain about their penis size, because breasts have nothing to do with giving a man an orgasm. It doesn’t matter at all how small a womans breasts are because we come either way the same. Woman always need to feel like they are the victims when sexual insults are present, but guys are the ones with all the worries as far
    as sex is concerned. Women don’t have to do anything. And guys, a womans g-spot is 2 or 3 inches inside, so that is all you need to please her, and if that isn’t enough for her than she is probably just a whore, and has serious issues that you don’t want to get involved with anyways. If a woman can give herself an orgasm with her finger, than what is the problem?

  • Halfman

    Think of sex as a game of golf: sure, having a small penis is a handicap and all, but you’d be a real idiot to use just the one club (your penis) for the entire game anyway (unless you’re Happy Gilmore). So use different clubs (your mouth, fingers, sex toys, explore fantasies and fetishes, how do you think lesbians satisfy each other?) to better your game (sex), and just remember to try out different courses (BBW, petite, mature, Black, White, Asian, Desi, Latina etc).

    What I’m getting at is that the female body is a beautiful and wondrously complex thing; and can be satisfied in many ways… all of which you can learn.

  • Matt

    He believes he cannot satisfy his wife due to his own insecurity about the size of his penis of which has nothing to do with her; it’s an internalized value of his. More importantly, the reason he cannot satisfy his wife is likely because of his obesity and he is erroneously attributing this to his penis size as this is something he is more comfortable with in respect to his ego.

    In the end it’s all about him and the dissonance between his idealized self and his actual self. It’s very narcissistic.

    Regardless, if he wanted to increase his penis size all he has to do is lose weight; the vast majority of it is clearly occluded by that great amount of pubic fat he has. I’d argue he’s of perfectly average size underneath.

    Besides, if he lost weight his penis would also appear much bigger irrespective of the fat pad — humans do not perceive the size of objects in absolute terms; only relative.

  • heather

    I had a 2 year relationship with a barely 4″er. I admit, the first time we did it, I thought he was smallish. But we fell in love, and it didn’t really matter. I was able to orgasm just fine on top. Sex is 99% is mental, only 1% physical anyway.
    I can say I ended a pretty promising relationship due to an over-sized penis. It hurt when it hit my cervix. Every guy I have ever been with commented i am very tight, even after having a child and hitting 40 yrs old. I guess I am the female counterpart to small penis. I am half Irish, lol. My husband of 10 years is just over 5″, and it has never been an issue. :)

    • heather

      PS- Women can give great oral to a less endowed man. He just needs good self esteem so he can relax and fully enjoy 😉

  • kenneth
  • Ehh

    So many ridiculous comments on here. A woman wanting a partner with a large penis is a “whore”? Lol! There is nothing wrong with wishing your partner was better endowed, especially if the size of his penis is the root of his insecurities – just like the guy’s girlfriend said: It’s not even down to the fact she wants him to have a bigger dick for their sex life, but the fact it would make him more confident in their relationship and life in general.
    Also, when a woman says her partner’s penis is “fine” or “perfect” when it’s on the small side, she’s not exactly lying. Let’s say the love of my life has a tiny wiener, but the sex is still good (since there’s much more to sex than a simple penis to vagina in 1 position) and he’s a lovely man all around. Am I going to have a problem with his small dick? Hell no, since there is so much more to him than his penis size. Now let’s take the same guy with the same tiny penis, but have a situation where we don’t know each other and are having a one night stand. Am I going to make fun of him to my girlfriends after the deed is done? Most likely. It’s all about the context.

  • Just sayin

    I admire your courage to make this film and share your journey. My heart broke for you telling the story of the bitch who in front of you wiggled her little finger and laughed with her friends. Hope Karma paid her a visit. Anyway as for the size of your penis, ya know what, its a problem if you make it a problem. A girl might be disapointed but a women would see the whole man. I have to say I think you girlfriend loves you for who you are, and yes sex is an important part of any relationship so go work on making it amazing. Intercourse is only one part of having sex. I also have to say I would feel if I was your girlfriend that you may only be staying with me out of the fear of rejection from other girls, THAT would bother me a hell of alot more than the size of your penis. Staying with someone out of insecurities is really the wrong reason, so im really hoping that is not the case. She deserves better and so do you. Best of luck in finding a happy place with all this and really well done to you making this film. Only a real man could make a this film. ☺

  • joy

    I like a large cock because I have a deep cervix. I also get off the best when it’s missionary intercourse and the tip is massaging my g-spot (we’re all adults here). Since I have these special needs my lover could not have a small one. However, a great many women prefer to orgasm through oral love and they truly may not like intercourse very much and a little dick is a good match. I knew a woman years ago who had a shallow vaginal canal and she said even 3.5 inches was too much. Anyway, this film is bold and brave and revealing and makes me appreciate being a woman so the issue doesn’t apply.

  • lucy

    whats the music/song called that starts at 21:10 ??

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