best suggestion, if you are personally ashamed of being loose, keep em closed.. its a muscle

What I took away from this is that women are a bunch of extremely insecure nutters.

i understand the point of the guys about oral sex. even if i’m a girl. but at the same time, better not forget that a dick and balls aren’t reaaaaally what you could call pretty or “sexy”. balls look flask on all the men without exception. But i’ve never been put of buy that as long as i like the person. I don’t really care about the “ugliness” of the men’s appendices dandling around (^^) I don’t think about it, i just get excited by the idea of giving pleasure to the person i love. sex in itself isn’t “clean” and all pretty. it’s animal like, wet, slimy and noisy (and not always cute or sexy noises^^) but as long as you love the person you’re doing it with, you don’t really care about that. It’s fun and loving at the same time. I love giving oral sex to my lover, but you have to admit that complaining about the size of a girl’s labias or clitoris isn’t really logical if you consider the difference with putting even the hugest clitoris in your mouth to the size of a dick or balls ^^ haha
But i wouldn’t be angry at men thinking like that either. i can understand their point. But i d think it lack a bit of objectivity. It’s a little like guy saying they’re put off by a woman with hair under their arm-pit (i don’t do that myself but i can understand that a woman doesn’t want to shave hers) when the guy complaining about it does have hair under his arm-pits himself ^^
I know it’s not really the guys fault for thinking like that, because they grew up in a society where they have been sort of “lobotomized” or “brain washed” about that. It’s thus natural for them not to find it to their taste, and i understand. But at the same time, it would be nice if someday they can admit that they know it’s unfair to complain about it.
“ok that’s not to my taste, but i admit that it’s unfair of me to ask something of someone that i don’t want to do myself”   or something like that^^

As long as the guys don’t say it with disdain and in a really respectful way, i think that’s also fair to respect their tastes.

At the same time, i don’t think you can say that the reason for the women to lack of self-esteem is “due” to a guy thinking un-objectively about the women appearance. Everyone is responsible of his/her own esteem and way of thinking.

Girls saying that  guys are horrible for thinking like that (when they have been “brain washed” since childhood by the social context.In some african countries, for example, guys prefer girls with huge labias. so the women even stretch them as much as possible to find a husband. That’s cultural) , but at the same time saying that those guys are responsible for the women lack of self esteem is a huge contradiction. That would mean that guys are ust responsible for everything^^

It reminds me of a lot of women i heard complaining about the fact that the guys don’t put the toilet-rim back down once they finish to pee….it always made me laugh^^They ask them to put it up to pee or they complain, but afterward they need to put it back down for the women to use comfortably ^^ haha so they ask the guy to do 2 “actions” when they don’t do any. what would be fair would be that they put it up and the women put it down. I know that it sounds like a strange comparison but that’s just the best way to resume a huge part of the feminism i found funny and ridiculous^^ Everything is the men fault!!!! haha^^So in conclusion : guys, you can have your own tastes, but don’t forget to be also objective about the fact that your genital appendices aren’t really pretty and that girsl still often put it in their mouths without making disgusting comments about it. ( if a girl does that , she’s stupid too:) and girls, try to work on your own self esteem as well. guys aren’t responsible for the fact that you don’t feel content about your boobs or your vagina. If a guy doesn’t like your vaginas, just find another one who won’t care. personally, i wouldn’t like to go out with someone who doesn’t accept my faults while he’s asking me to accept his. So if a guy doesn’t like my bobs or dunno what, i won’t complain, that’s his tastes, but i won’t feel that i’ve lost anything by not being with him. that’s all! ^^(ho and i also heard some women talking about guys dicks and mocking the guys about it…i find that plain stupid as well. But that’s a proof that it’s not a “guy thing” it’s just plain human to talk shit about someone behind his/her back ^^ So be misanthropic instead of being feminist ^^

Not a very good doc. The woman running the show personalizes it too much. yes, she has a vagina and therefore is qualified to talk about her vagina and experiences therein, but she interjects while others are speaking about interesting things to inform them of her own opinion, often when I got the sense that the person was just about to say something interesting. She needs to learn better documentary interview skills.

And why this remains near the top of the most popular list for, what, over a year now, is a mystery. At 7.3 out of 10 it’s clearly not that popular. The most popular list is clearly broken, please fix it or remove it.

This documentary hit me harder than I expected, by a long shot.  Good job of seeing all sides, decent awareness of her own bias.

Personally, my shape seems to be what everyone’s going for.  Not sure how that makes me feel.  I know I don’t like to be without pubic hair because it makes me feel like I’m eleven years old.  Lisa Rogers seems to agree, with her comment about the nicely tucked up bits looking childish.

if we are talking about sexuality one thing is sure, yes i like beauty, sensuality, pretty shaved/waxed vaginas and even more all these things+love. but as a man and from my own experience, the girls/women who have a great control of their muscles give more pleasure to men and have more pleasure themselves. so basically i’d say that like men do, working out, training etc.. to stay fit and perform well during sex, train your vaginas girls!! take the command, and then all others problems will disappear if your man is drooling after sex. 
it’s not a legend that those exercices for vaginas exist since antiquity, some african women are training themselves to cut a banana with their vagina, and to finish that’s the same methods which are used to recover from a pregnancy nowadays. easy to find websites to advise you.
you love what gives you happiness, nothing less, nothing more. parole of a man

SO I totally want to know how many of these male commenters even bother to trim their pubes (let alone wax or shave)? I mean balls, gootch, everything. Because if you have a fucking jungle in your pants you’re all a bunch of hypocrites. 

Thank you so much for making this. Absolutely eye-opening and dreadfully tragic. 

I’ve seen some vagina that wasn’t all that pleasing. It always has something to do with tons of hair or smell. Wash that shit! And then wash it again for christ sake! No one cares about the stupid lips. That’s just more character. Each one is different and has it’s own personality. Just wash please. I guess I do have a preference towards them being shaved for a practical reason. Oral sex and sometimes the hair can really chafe like crazy. Let me tell you that shit hurts like hell the next day and sometimes the skin will peel. It really sucks. The same thing sometimes happens with condoms. Yikes!

Perfectly beautiful woman making a documentary about vaginas. And the never ending saga of how women feel uncomfortable on their looks. My question is – When does this end? We put too much pressure on ourselves(women) – for what? And why? Get real people! C’moon.

She’s very feminist, and she’s very close minded, she imposed her opinion don’t giving any chance of understanding the true essence of such procedure.