After having watched Penis Size Insecurity By Men, it’s now time to move on to lesson two and have a look at womens insecurities: The Perfect Vagina.
Fronted by Lisa Rogers, this documentary focuses on the rise in vaginal cosmetic surgery, specifically labiaplasty. For the uninitiated, labiaplasty involves cutting off the inner labia so that they don’t ‘hang’ below the outer labia. Ouch! The labiaplasty business has skyrocketed over the past few years, and Lisa’s mission was to find out why so many women hate the appearance of their vulvas to the point that they’d willingly have pieces of them surgically removed.
Warning: May not be suitable for minors.
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johnny, dahling, there’s plenty of room left for your comments so don’t be troubled, promise!
Jonny I don’t see a reason why we would want to not hog this space to make things more convenient for you. If you find it nausiating get something from the pharmacy and try another forum.
Jeez guys kiss and make up. Talk about losers – both of you are so inward looking and hogging this space for your own ends, it’s becoming more than a little nauseating. Take it offline you children. Folks let’s get back on track and let these kids on the make, make out elsewhere.
I don’t see why I should be nice to a bitter, angry, pathetic person trying to attribute her own issues on other people and masking it as being honest. This is the definiton of pathetic and sad.
Amy, oh I see you did watch it. So you didn’t get turned on by it? So noone else should as well? Don’t you see how everything you write is convoluted or hateful? You abviously like snipping at men because you can’t handle your own demons. So no surprise someone that pathetic would not have a boyfriend. May be you should get laid to cheer up. Seems like you might be too ugly for guys to hit on you even for casual sex. Try going for the drunk ones.
Amy, this video does show some attractive naked females so it would be normal for Mike to cum over it. Considering that you didn’t watch the video and writing all this negative stuff as a result of your own issues such as inability to relate to men, isn’t this true to say, that even according to your own standards, you are being truly pathetic? My condolences.
It appears that Chris is struggling with his inner demons that just refuse to let him say anything which is not convoluted or hateful. Like I said before, poor thing is his own worst enemy.
Well, if I got no BF currently its not so bad, at least I’m not stuck with someone like him.
Poor Pathetic Chris, you just don’t think do you? And you are obviously conflicted. One day you’re halfway nice the next day you’re back to your mean ugly self.
Just because I had not watched the film a week ago does not mean I haven’t watched it since then. Which I did watch it on another site. I thought it was weird her asking guys if they cared what their g.f. looked like.
So you are obviously like a said, a bitter angry nasty person who likes sniping at people.
Pathetic.
Amy they did have some sexy naked girls there so it would be normal for Mike to cum over it. Now considering that you didn’t watch the show and saying all this negative stuff because of your personal issues and inability to relate to men, don’t you think that even by your standards you just appear really pathetic?
Chris, you’re an opportunist, why didn’t I guess that?
Mike, you poor thing, you must have a really boring sex life is this turned you on.
My condolences.
I don’t know about you guys but I came twice watching this.
Lisa gets emotional about some of the women having surgery to make themselves feel better about the way they look. She does this whilst sporting near perfect makeup, plucked eyebrows and a stylish haircut. She is lucky to be very pretty, but fails to see the contradiction between what she is saying and how she is behaving. It is a shame that some people feel the need to do it for others, but I see doing this as no different then going to the gym, getting waxed, spray tanned, teeth whitened, or even wearing high heels. I agree it is more extreme and is very sad that some people are made to feel this way about themselves by society.
It is great that the choice is there. If people really feel like they need it, then I am glad for them that they can do something about it. If you are going to question why people feel pressured, then at least don’t do it while trying so hard to hide your natural beauty with a ton of makeup.
GET A GRIP!!!!! LABIA SURGERY…. MEN DON’T CARE.. THEY ARE JUST GLAD TO BE THERE… HYGIENE AND GOOD PELVIC FLOOR EXERCISES…. WOMEN.. MASTURBATE MORE.. LEARN TO LOVE YOUR BODY AND LEARN WHAT TO DO WITH IT TO HAVE A GOOD TIME…. GET A GRIP…
OK THEN, WE’LL DO WHAT YOU SAID, HAVING MET EVERY MAN IN THE WORLD AND ASKED HIS OPINION. THANK YOU FOR YOUR HARD WORK AND RESEARCH IN FORMING IT. ALSO, stop fucking shouting.
Hey Amy. How is your week going? Haven’t heard from you in a while.
Ok, I’m willing to help. Please email me the photos of your breasts and vagina for an objective, reasonable male opinion. I’ll tell you if it is more likely to be a physical problem or a mental one. We can discuss the price for my services later.
As men may have an insecurity so women will have similar – it’s part of the rich fabric of human experience. We are mortal, we live for a short while and we all die and take ourbits with us, including the insecurites. Vanity is the preserve of the nervous rich, the concerned well and those who have little else to struggle with. A priority -no. Jerome.
The simple fact of the matter is the perfect vagina can chew bubble gum and play the trumpet at the same time. And no surgery can give you that. Just hard work, dedication and a cheerful attitude. Then again, there’s no shame in being “just” satisfactory!
Chris, I spent most of my childhood in a “warm and loving family environment” which was for the most part totally devoid of acknowledgment of or interest in how someone else was feeling. On the one hand, most people familiar with my family I’m fairly certain viewed us as “warm and loving” but then that is an outside view looking in. It did not feel warm and loving but then in order to know that you first have to find out what does feel warm and loving. It took me quite a while to see my family for what it was. Which is not to say that no one loved the other, only that whatever love there was or wasn’t was hard to find or see. It shows how judgmental people can be for I was told on more than a few occasions how lucky I was to have such a “fun” mother. Which caused me all sorts of difficulties because she did not “feel” fun to me, she felt critical and judgmental to me. So then I was left to wonder, is it me, am I somehow at fault to fail to connect with such a “fun” person. Or could it be more complicated than that? I learned to be very critical of myself as well which was surely no favor since I was already feeling overwhelmed by the same from my mother. Anyway, all these years later, though I have many personal faults and grievances with myself, a lack of honesty and an unwillingness to look at the truth is not one of them. I am quite open to the truth, or the search for it and I am also very open about how I feel. Which doesn’t necessarily help me connect very well with anyone if the same desire for openness and honesty are not a priority with them. In fact, sometimes it has caused me to be more apart because a lot of people are not comfortable with so much openness of expression, especially men who do not “share” well. But I can understand why men might be that way, they are not raised, overall, in an environment conducive to openness.
Which is a lot of blah blah blah I guess way of saying that your judgment of me as wanting to make a criticism of what you said as emotionally as possible or devastating to you, its my way of saying those are your super-imposed perceptions and not the truth. I said what I said because it was the truth. I have no desire to inflict pain on you, grievous or otherwise. Then why did I criticize you? I guess because it was a vicious thing that seemed grounded in an overall hatred of women without allowing for any deviance, it seemed to declare women worthy of scorn and hatred no matter what. Like I said, there are few if any certainties in life. There are few if any absolutes. Not all women are bad. Not all men are bad. Not all people are good. I tried to explain or suggest why I have a dislike for women (because of their guile and apparent hidden motivations, and so forth, which I guess goes back to my youth spent in a home trying to figure out if I was in trouble or loved or liked or not. It would be so much easier if people would just say how they feel instead of having to guess.
If I despised or hated you I would say so and I did not because I don’t. I would have to know you in order to hate you. It seems like you might have had some experiences that left you with negative emotions and a desire to “hurt” and wound and I wonder why or what they were.
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Amy, interesting response. Now let me provide you with some feedback and clarify a few things.
It’s good to see that you have some knowledge of psychology, can express yourself eloquently and can generally communicate with more than a few annoying, cliché, self-righteous, feminist phrases heard on Oprah, unlike the majority of female participants in this forum. You do bring up some good points and I would agree with about 95% of what you said. It’s also good to see that you are willing to share some of your personal issues. Well I guess you might as well do that, since we are talking about vaginas anyway 🙂
Now, is it just my perception or what you are trying to say is that your aggressive reaction to my initial hostile comment about women and labias is motivated by the following factors:
1) It’s negative towards women – (you are a woman)
2) It’s negative towards women with self esteem isssues, based on their body type – (you are a woman, that had self esteem issues, based on your body type)
3) Since you can relate to this, you did get insulted to a certain extent, even though you did not want to admit it.
I believe you that you were not just trying to insult me back but also expressing your opinion. Yet, surely the main motivation was to hurt me in the most efficient possible way, based on your knowledge of the way personal issues affect people. So the logic here would follow something like that:
“Chris is saying stuff that makes me feel bad. He seems to have some frustration and anger towards women. I must guess what the issue is, point it out, exaggerate it and cause Chris to be embarrassed, humiliated and feel emotional pain”. However the whole nature of your criticism is that: “Chris did a bad thing by being insensitive and hostile to someone else’s issues”. Do you see a bit of hypocrisy here or you were just trying to restore justice?
My second post was still very negative towards women, yet this time most of the negativity was directed towards a dishonest, manipulative woman, selfishly exploiting other girl’s problems. In this situation you would relate much better to these girls with issues than the woman exploiting it. I have also mentioned the freedom of choice issue which coincidently approves some of the previous choices that you personally made. Your response to my second comment has an almost friendly tone. So how much of what you are saying has actually to do with my goodness/badness as opposed to your personal interest invested in an issue? It seems to me that not much.
Now let’s assume that you are not a bad person, as you surely must think. Despite this, you would still not care about some abstract concept of fairness and would try your best to inflict the maximum amount of damage if this helps you to preserve your interests. So is there any reason for me to not play around with someone else’s weaknesses unless I’m interested to somehow cooperate with this person?
As for males being polygamous, if you are as well versed in biology as you are in psychology then you should know that it is to a large extend determined by your genes. Sex is a gene mixing mechanism. A male of most species tries to mate with as many females as possible and a female chooses one or a few males to give offspring. Of course we are a bit more sophisticated than animals and have some control over our natural instincts, but criticizing a males urge to have sex with many women is like criticizing a woman’s urge to be a mother. However I’m not saying that in this case you were being critical. It did sound like a genuine attempt to help me a bit, perhaps with a little misunderstanding on your part of what it is like to be a male.
As to the film, I did not have to enter any credit card details to watch it. It is fairly graphic. I’m not sure how you can measure if it is tasteful or not. A movie or porn can be tasteful or not 🙂 This is the part where I’m supposed to start raging about how you have totally missed the plot and just want to watch some poor, innocent, naked girl 🙂 The role of a good documentary is supposed to introduce the subject the way it is, without making it look any better or worse than in real life.
Chris, I’m not a psychotherapist. While I admit to having had my “head shrunken” a few time and having an ongoing interest in matters of emotions, self-esteem, moods and just our general “situation” in life I cannot claim any of my opinions are professional ones. But then I don’t buy into anyone’s “theory” just because it comes with a PhD or any other degree attached to it. My own theories have developed over a life-time of living and observing myself and others. I try not to make absolute statements as I think there are exceptions to almost everything.
Watching TV, imo, is equivalent to putting a giant funnel on our head which empties into our brain any and all objects and information carried downstream from questionable sources. As such, I try to avoid becoming a mindless receptacle of whatever information someone else chooses to dump into it. With that said, I would point out that I did not view this video or any video with my brain set to “dull” and that I am well-aware that every one of us is motivated by the unknown, by our past, our experiences, our wishes, our failures, blah blah. It is rare to find a film or book that takes a completely noncommittal stance and fairly presents both sides or multiple sides or aspects of an issue or question. I have never made a film but if I did I’m sure it would be driven by my own personal agenda and issues just as what I write is motivated in the same way.
Your observations about the sorting and censoring of the views and ideas expressed is more than likely quite accurate. I hope I don’t disappoint you by saying I was well aware of that possibility before it was raised by you.
How well we accept ourselves on any level, whether its physical appearance, mental acuity, aesthetics, physical abilities, depth of emotion, whatever, is influenced by our background. Its bound to be influenced by the environment in which we were raised, the people who surrounded us, how we interacted with others, what were the perceived results of what we did and who we are with the people around us. Were we raised in an environment that encouraged raising questions or were we in an authoritarian world where we weren’t supposed to think, just do as we were told. Were people around us emotionally aware, were we encouraged to say how we felt or were expressions of individuality frowned on? How open-minded were the people we spent our time with, how old were they, did we struggle to make ends meet or were we raised in affluent surroundings. Did the people we interacted with reward us with love and kindness or with material possessions? Were we raised with an intrinsic belief in the dignity of all life or is it a “dog eat dog” world? What part of the country was home, was it warm or cold, sunny or cloudy and rainy? All those things and a million others affect what we do and how we think. So basically, yes, you are correct when you say that the author of this documentary presents a skewed viewpoint.
At various times throughout my life I have had differing opinions about things that seem to have been influenced in part by my age and what I knew at the time. For example, I have a scar on my arm that I get when I was 5 or 6 years old, the result of a burn, which was the source of much sorrow and distress when I was younger. Part of my distress was the lack of modulation of others, kids mostly, who openly expressed a curiosity or interest or dislike of the scar, how I got it and so forth. I recall that eventually I made several attempts at persuading my parents to allow me to have “plastic surgery” to remedy the attention-gathering scar. I wanted to be like everyone else and blend-in, not stand out. My parents were of the belief that it would be foolish to spend money on something like that and that it was what it was. The could not understand the distress it caused me. For a long time I wished it was non-existent. Then I got another scar somewhere else which became my focus and I wished it away. Which is to say that eventually I have realized that fixing one problem may not be “the answer” as there is the possibility of another to take its place. Which over the years has evolved into “life isn’t perfect” in fact some times it sucks. I don’t focus so much on things like that but then I do view those as “minor” now. I would try to correct things though that I thought were of major importance. If I had something on my face that was overtly “weird” like a scar or an extra nose, say, (lol) I would do what I could to remedy that situation. As to things unseen like “vagina’s” (which are as far as I’m concerned a non-entity almost because a vagina is in one sense a “non-place”, the space between other things) I might or might not be concerned about mine (which I consider “mine” as relatively being normal but then I have never really “studied” it either). “It” might bother me if someone had ever been callous or insensitive enough to make uncomplimentary remarks about it. It would depend on where I was at sexually, if I was past caring about being intimate with someone then it wouldn’t matter much. If it presented a physical discomfort or disability I would probably place significant importance on getting it fixed. All of which is to say that today I might care and tomorrow I might not. But basically the documentary is poorly named as its not (apparently) about vaginas but about labia.
It’s a shame, I think, that young girls are given “boob jobs” for their sweet 16 birthday present from their parents. But I confess as someone who was well-endowed in that regard who eventually had a breast-reduction with which I have always been happy to have had, that having personal knowledge of the “down-sides” of large I would be more supportive of downsizing than upsizing. The reason is because being too large can be physically encumbering for sports and so forth and just being “out of balance/proportion” whereas being small is just a matter of aesthetics. Now I am neither large nor small. I think I would have like being small because then I wouldn’t have to wear a bra at all (and sometimes I don’t now, I can “get away” with it). I hate bras, always have. I am not obese but if I were I would feel very motivated to fix it because of its physical limitations and societal effects.
Blah blah blah, all of which is to say that my opinion today might be different tomorrow, that I am aware of this documentaries potential one-sided viewpoint, etc. Almost everything in life is presented in lopsided form according to the views of the day. Today women seem to have the upper-hand after divorce BUT NOT ALWAYS. Yesterday it seemed men had the upper hand BUT NOT ALWAYS.
My problem with your overt criticism and hostility was that it seemed to be motivated by a dislike and a distrust of women and/or people in general and not based on any real knowledge on your part. But then that’s MY OPINION Which I was motivated to express on reading yours.
We are all a series of actions and interactions with each other. We affect each other or not depending on the circumstances.
You still seem to have very aggressive hostilities toward women, Chris. I can understand the possibilities of circumstances that resulted in you feeling that way because actually I have an innate distrust even tendency to dislike women overall because my experiences have been such that females are, overall, very selfish, competitive, vindictive, spiteful, conniving and untrustworthy. A FEW women seem to not fit that mold but overall its the views I have because of experiences I’ve had. So I don’t seek out female companionship or friends because I don’t feel comfortable with them. If someone else has different views good for them but I believe mine are right for me. Personally, I can’t imagine what total absence of intelligence would cause a man to want to be involved with more than one woman at a time because frankly, one would be too much for me. So while polygamy I think is seen as possibly an enviable dilemna by most men, it is, in my viewpoint more likely a vision of hell.
So you see, everyone has differing viewpoints and that’s the way that is.
As to the film, I did not watch it. Experience has lead to me distrust sites that ask for my credit card information “for verification purposes only” and so I chose not to watch though I am curious about how much is shown and how tastefully (or not). (Is there a tasteful way to display such private orifices?) I guess it depends on your viewpoint.
I’m sorry for the derogatory joke before. I really think that a woman is a crucial life support system for the vagina. It’s just better when there are no loose bits hanging off it.
Notice how the journalist asks a question! When she says: “Do you care what vagina looks like?”, with a tone of voice like she is going to crucify you if you say yes, then guys say: “We don’t care!”. If she says: “What kind of vagina do you like? Would you prefer big and dark labia or small and pink labia?” They go: “Small and pink of course!”. So it’s obvious she forces both opinions to make some controversy for her show.
Do you know how many interviews she conducted that are not shown in the show, because they would not support her fake point of view? Do you know how many people in the show said the stuff they said just because they got paid? The journalist says she will show that she is not all talk and gets a doctor to say, that some women with vagina like hers, still get a surgery done. Even if it’s true, notice that these women are single 19-21 year olds and the journalist is about 35 with a husband and two kids. Of course it’s easy for her to talk self righteous smack and be judgmental since no one cares about her vagina anymore and she has already built her family. Then they show a girl who says that she is so embarrassed that she would not show her vagina to guys and not even to her general practitioner. Yet the same “poor, shy girl” is not embarrassed to show her vagina to camera crew and the whole world.
I hope that I have showed you how the whole show is a cold blooded, manipulated, money making scheme, designed to play on peoples issues and emotions. It’s the people like this journalist that cause womens issues, by advertising (in subtle ways), new trends like labiaplasty, in her show. Then they feed off the issues they have spawned. The next show she will make will be about some successful Hollywood star and how she has “courageously forged her good fortune with strong character and labioplasty”.
People, including these girls, go through way harder things in life than a minor surgery, which takes three months to heel. And you expect me to be sensitive about this? Who should I feel sorry for and why?
Thanks for that valuable feedback Amy. I appreciate it from a great classy psychotherapist as yourself.
It’s obvious that Chris is some ugly dude who couldn’t get a date even if he had to pay for it. Maybe he’s ugly outside or maybe inside or maybe both, either way, what a loser. sorry, chris, you didn’t insult me or any other woman, you just made yourself look really pathetic.
It’s interesting how the girl doing the show gets all moral and self righteous considering she is just doing this show to make money. So she is exploiting womens issues and judging their choices to make money and at the same time makes these women feel bad about their issues. Truly evil isn’t it? Noone sees it? Bullshit. Now days shit loads of people see it. She wants to help women? Bullshit. She wants to help herself! I bet this bitch would get it done too if she had an ugly one and the sponsor or director of her show didn’t like ugly ones.
Its good for women to trim their vagina. This way they don’t look as disgusting and can make more money selling it. As the old wise saying goes: “What do you call a useless piece of meat around a womans vagina? You call it a woman.”
wow. i’m in total shock. you’re a pathetic piece of shit. a woman gave you life, you fuck. i hope a woman gets to take it one day. people like you don’t deserve an ounce of oxygen. a pure monster, through and through.
You do realise that you’ve just totally overreacted there don’t you? His crime was WRITING something, albeit quite nasty but still he has only written something on the internet and you think he deserves to die? What’s worse; a joke in bad taste or wishing death on someone? I put it to you, that it is you that is the monster! Chris isn’t! He’s just an arse.
And my GOD, what about that guy talkng abt virginity!!! Being from an oriental community doesn’t mean one should be so Narrow-minded!! I am from an oriental community myself, and still I don’t understand the views of such creeps!!!! He just doesn’t give a damn about women!!!! He just want to have a rather comfy lyf with other girls before marriage and then expects a “clean” one to become his wife!!!! Hypocrite BA$taRD
This film MUST be broadcasted everywhere. Girls get a grip on your lyf!! Let us not be influenced by the porn movies and magazines. Those girls have to do those things to look appalling to pervs, YOU DONT NEED TO LOOK APPALLING TO PERVS OR ALL THE OTHER GUYS!! Your man likes you the way you look!! You think a guy will go to do plastic just to nip off a bit which doesn’t look good??? We girls are so obsessed by everything!! Keep it simple girls!! this is the best!!!
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Wow. I’ve got to say, this documentary made me feel very uncomfortable several times, and for me, that means it did a great job of informing me and taking me places I’ve never thought to go. To the filmmaker – thank you for your work on this. To all the commenters – everyone has a point of view, everyone has a right to their emotions and their personal experience. Please comment without insulting others.
What is worse is arranged marriages, and women having to be virgins, and not the men.
I can not agree more with ^Joe’s comment. It’s the derogatory comments like the few disgusting ones above that are driving men and women to have surgery on their genitals and causing psychological damage. People put so much emphasis on size, looks, such shallow things. It’s like not buying your dream home cause the doorknob is a little rusty. What ever happened to inner beauty, love, compassion, and genuine attraction? Society is so caught up in materialism and outer looks, and too many people use porn as a reference point for sex. From when I first have sex with someone until the end of the relationship, not once does the thought of ‘Is her vagina ideal?’ cross my mind. Even before sex, it’s never about wanting to see how it ‘looks’, it’s all about the anticipation and excitement, the lust before love. Every man has a different penis and every woman has a different vagina. I’d rather have something real than something plastic and stripped away. Please keep your negative comments to yourselves, especially when it comes to the beautiful bodies that people are born with.
I’m a guy and I must say honestly I do not understand this! I’m trying really hard to understand and I get that some girls feel insecure about themselves but really? This just seems to me very extreme. Nature gives you a body and you say no, it’s not perfect so i’m going to change who I am. Girls should understand that the best way to impress people is to be yourself, in and out. I’m sorry if i’m sounding like just a dumb man, i’m not trying to be. I honestly really don’t care about how a girl looks (even less about how her vagina looks).
All guys are different, do not only listen to the big dumb guys with the loud voices, listen to the quiet men in the back of the room.
I’m glad I watched this and I really hope that plastic surgery or any cosmetic surgery of any kind will stop. I want my world to be real, not covered up or with parts missing. I just wish I could go to every girl in the world and say “you look fine as you are”.
I just can’t believe this…One one hand, I feel sorry for Rosie…on the other she did this to herself (the plastic surgery, I mean). I would never have that done and any Man (or woman) who had problems with my “Ladybits” would be asked to bugger off. Thank you for making this…more Women (AND Men) need to see this.
Many women would tell you different to make you feel good, but at the end we all know that SIZE is very important.
wtf is going on in here? Feminist bitches on their periods whining about men giving their opinion. Like no woman have ever judged some guys dick. so fucking hypocritial.
Poor Rosie. Those amazing pretty lips she had removed for society’s convention. I personally think they looked lovely, then next thing the surgeon’s had them off. So sad girl! We should love and celebrate variety!!
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I agree with you so much. I think Rosie’s vagina was incredible very sexy and very cute. Hearing this asshole doctor say yes this is too much really pissed me off(what a jerk)!
I have a perfect vagina. My wife’s …
And she has a perfect dick, you!
I never knew how my vagina compared to other womens’. This was very informative and I didn’t find any of the ones I saw in this documentary offensive to look at.
I do wonder if women with a long labia flaps have any trouble with them during sex? Do they get in the way and cause pain? That would be the only reason I could think of for a woman to have surgery on her vagina– not for “looks” or for a guy. In fact, any man who gets to have sex with any vagina should consider themselves privileged and thank their lucky stars.
*Sigh* I’m not even going to bother reading more of the BS that has been put up as a way to vent.
Anyone want to rant on how outrageous it is to consider that women still, in some countries, are subjected to Vaginal Mutilations (AKA Female circumcision) as part of a rite of passage?
As for vaginal health and such, it might be worth noting that until it became compulsory for women to wear underpants (admittedly the fashions were including LONG gowns, and undergowns, etc as underwear) the gynaecological problems, aside from the complications of childbirth, were incredibly rare. Why? Because the air was allowed to circulate around the genitals.
As a medieval re-enactor, it was only ever men, up until the late 16th century and into the start of the 17th century, who wore anything under their breaches.
Perfect vagina? Please! There is no such thing. The best any woman can hope for, these days is a HEALTHY one.
Insecurity over your vagina? Yet another pathetic insecurity made up by silly insecure women. This makes me very sad.
Steve – all of your comments confirm that you have a low mental capability, including your most recent. Evidence of this, and so you being a moron:
(i) Your inability to understand my first comment: your claim about spelling.
(ii) Your persistence with the idea that moron is a medical term, despite you being advised it is obsolete although it remains in non-specialised, everyday language: a very small amount of research on your part would confirm this.
(iii) The lack of punctuation in your commnents.
(iv) The excpetionally low standard of grammar in your comments.
Jenavie you sound like a frustrated lesbian or even a man hater. What give you the right to correct anybody it called freedom of speech and if you want to leave your two cent comment on this page .subject at hand “My perfect Vagina” not” my perfect comment” You Hoor’s Dropins and me i’am more on that off.
Steve – I am neither a lesbian nor a man-hater. However, I do hold in contempt morons who post semi-literate ramblings and can not understand simple explanations from others.
Also, as there is nothing in what I have written to suggest that I am a lesbian or a man-hater the only conclusion that can be made from these claims is that you are a misogynist & homophobe.
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Honestly. Society makes me sick. Humans make me sick. This film makes me sick. What the hell is the matter with all of you. Get a life and help somebody more unfortunate than yourselves. Do you realise most humans on the planet don’t even have access to clean water? Just because you are (un?)lucky enough to be born into a banal society – like the one that made this ‘doco’ – where the appearance of your box is more important than the real truths of the world, does not make your ridiculously banal life any more important, nor make the horrible realities of other’s no-banal realities disappear. Truly, truly pathetic. And no, I did not watch the whole ‘doco’. Even though I am an RN, it almost made me chuck.
How can you be a RN ( assuming RN = registered nurse ) if society and humans make you sick. I am a nursing student, and the whole point of my future career is to help those who need help. I don’t understand how you could fulfill the duty of being a nurse if you hate people.
“Even though I am an RN, it almost made me chuck.” What has being in the Royal Navy to do with it?
Um – try RN = Registered Nurse (at least that’s what it means in Australia)
This is such a double standard. It’s standard fare for women to giggle about penis size, you hear it all the time. Yet a man making the perfectly rational claim that some pussies are prettier than others is sexist and evil? WTF?!!
While I agree that it makes no difference to penetrative sex, it does matter when it comes to oral. An “innie” is just more visually pleasing. Sure, you’d be a freak if it was all you cared about, but in comparison to the amount of crap women talk about guys’ dicks (don’t even get me started on circumsion myths) I feel no guilt in having a preference.
> “An “innie” is just more visually pleasing.”
You might want to add, “In my opinion” to the end of that sentence. That is your preference. I feel just the opposite. Thankfully we all have different tastes- helps ensure that all the men on the planet aren’t chasing after 1 single person.
I don’t see anything wrong with any of these labia .. not that we saw much of them by the way, I would have appreciated the documentary more if we’d been shown more of them, what they look like in all their variety..
However, I must say that I feel rather disturbed at women thinking that they have to change how their labia look because of being laughed at .. We’re taught as young girls that our fannies are disgusting, mustn’t be touched unless we are washing them, and you can’t even call a vagina by it’s name. It’s no wonder we grow up to hate them. What does it matter what people think anyway? If I’m with a lover and he loves my labia, then he’s a keeper.
i am totally sad about how she thinks about herself. i simply wanted to hug her & convince her about all these perfectionist views are illusional. there exists no perfect vagina, no perfect penis. people are born with their owns which suits them best. our bodies are the wombs of our souls & who are we to cut it,re-shape it and than saying; ‘now they are perfect, yuppie yayy, i can spread my legs without shame’. oh, that is sad. the discovery of femininity lays completely somewhere else. vagina is just a tool to illuminate the eternal pleasure of intercourse; the sacred union of male and female. to reshape the gate of this, just means to avoid the main course. i hope, these doctors read a bit more about woman psychology and go deeper within the subject.
WOW..Of all the things women get insecure about this is by far the most ridiculous. Firstly any straight man with an erection isn’t going to knock back a vagina with a little more labia then the “perfect” one. Secondly, if a man is going to discriminate a woman based on how big her flaps are he would want to have the most perfect penis imaginable. I would like to see a documentary on that!!I have seen a few penis’ during my sexual experimentation and I can only recall one that was aesthetically perfect. The older you get you just realise that everyone has imperfections and insecurities and you become more secure in yourself because of it.
I think it’s a sad thing that this happens. And I also think it is a matter of education. What on earth can make a girl dislike her vagina? Personally, I didn’t find one I didn’t like. Why should it matter that some guy said something stupid about how it looks? There will be always a lot of other guys that might think it looks nice.
I think that having an operation is too extreme. And it’s for no good reason.